Refuse To Not Love Yourself!

Put on a few pounds?

          Love yourself anyway.

Shoot off your mouth at your boss?

           Love yourself anyway.

Told a lie?

          Love yourself anyway.

Are you struggling to keep your marriage healthy?

          Love yourself anyway.

Do you have transgressions in your life that are haunting you?
          Love yourself anyway.

Your self-love and self-acceptance must not be conditional upon what you have done. It must be pure, untainted, and accessible. You will make mistakes. Humans make mistakes. But, to grow from them, there must be a commitment to love – no matter what. All self-improvement requires self-approval, love, and acceptance. Forgiveness is necessary if you would like to grow past your errors and transgressions, but it requires a foundation of love. True unconditional love will develop you into the person you want to be, even with all your flaws, defects, and mistakes.

Refuse, absolutely refuse, not to love yourself. Be the love that expresses itself in, through, and as you. LOVE is healing. Your commitment to love yourself while processing your emotions and pain will carry you through the process. This is the kind of love that a parent has for their child. Parents get upset and sometimes frustrated but never stop loving their children. Love must be a measurable part of the healing and growing process.

While processing, love yourself; while forgiving yourself, love yourself; while getting healthy, love yourself; while making mistakes love yourself – without exception. Let your love transform you.

Love is a fertile field of transformation. You are the seed growing into yourself, planted in that field, relishing in the beauty.